The number one reason people are in debt is because they are afraid to be themselves, afraid they are not good enough. So, I invented a mantra to help, "Try or Die." Very much like the book, "Life or Debt". I think we spend money to escape our greatness. We are more afraid of trying and failing than dying.
We do not love ourselves.
We have been seeking outside satisfaction, in a house, a car, clothes, food, anything that catches your attention. These patterns were set up by our society, based on old religions, which served to evolve man, but do not work now. Something not to be missed is Christianity the lecture on DVD by the world's expert, who holds a Phd in the New Testament, Bart Ehrman. Click to read the reviews, I watch it three times. Why did I watch a class on the Bible, because all our beliefs are buried within the last 2,000 years, and our superstitions. To over come these you need to know why you fear what you do, and what you are running away from subconsciously. It's worth it!
Life or Debt, is a book, by Stacy Johnson. This is the book I used and followed to become debt free.
It's really fun when you set goals and start to meet them, you feel powerful and get this, start liking yourself more! :)
Humans are the only species that do not love themselves. Can you imagine if nature, took this belief, everything would be dead, nature and every molecule in every atoms strives for the best potentiality. Start putting yourself first and loving yourself, there is no other rule. You cannot get out of debt or love anyone else unless you love your self first. Below is a fun example of a little pony who is not a doormat.
I invite you on my seven year journey around the world in search of love. My memoir is on Amazon and Kindle books. I have shared some of it with you below….enjoy!
If you liked, The Alchemist or Eat Pray Love you'll love "From Hollywood to God."
My first stop was to The World Sound Healing Conference in San Francisco. I wanted to understand the science of frequencies, especially if everything in the universe was vibrating to their own unique song!
I waited in the large conference room to hear Dr. Susan Yale's lecture on the Harmonic Oscillator.
The room went black and three pyramids projected on a movie screen.
"You can hear the sound of "nature" between the Pyramids of Giza," Dr. Yale said, pausing, "it's a perfect F Sharp."
No one moved. She spoke slowly, "If you knew there was a place in the world where you could hear God, would you go?"
I always wanted to sleep on the Nile!"
~ from my Memoir, (click link—"From Hollywood to God" Kelly Granite Enck on Amazon books and Kindle.