Empowering Your Child, is the greatest gift you can give your child. by Kelly Granite Enck
I want to share an amazing phrase to say next time your child comes to you for approval.
First: take the time to see what your child is showing and listen carefully. Then share something special with them about what you heard or saw to really connect to their accomplishment. But, do not say, I AM PROUD OF YOU! Because, this creates the need for outside approval. Which will never be enough.
Instead, Say, YOU MUST BE SO PROUD OF YOURSELF. This empowers your child's inner-approval.
Second: Be Gentle with yourself as a parent, nothing you do every feels like enough, so lighten up and laugh more, have fun with your children. This is what they remember, the silly moments!
Master Teachers have one goal to teach the student to listen to their inner voice and work with it. If you teach your child that he or she should be proud of themselves, they will be. period.
Your daughter will not grow up sleeping around with men for approval or love, and your son will not be shy and awkward around his peers. I learned this the hard way, I never felt an inner approval, and as an adult it's much harder to teach yourself. Love from a parent is the keystone to a child's success.
My first stop was to The World Sound Healing Conference in San Francisco. I wanted to understand the science of frequencies, especially if everything in the universe was vibrating to their own unique song!
I waited in the large conference room to hear Dr. Susan Yale's lecture on the Harmonic Oscillator.
The room went black and three pyramids projected on a movie screen.
"You can hear the sound of "nature" between the Pyramids of Giza," Dr. Yale said, pausing, "it's a perfect F Sharp."
No one moved. She spoke slowly, "If you knew there was a place in the world where you could hear God, would you go?"
I always wanted to sleep on the Nile!"
~ from my Memoir, (click link—"From Hollywood to God" Kelly Granite Enck on Amazon books and Kindle.